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How Successful People Stay Calm by Dr. Travis Bradberry

9/22/2015

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This article is the most viewed in the history of Linkedin.  We hope you can glean from it as you endeavor to Unlock your Godly destiny. 

Dr Bradberry shares, "The ability to manage your emotions and remain calm under pressure has a direct link to your performance. TalentSmart has conducted research with more than a million people, and we’ve found that 90% of top performers are skilled at managing their emotions in times of stress in order to remain calm and in control.


If you follow our newsletter, you’ve read some startling research summaries that explore the havoc stress can wreak on one’s physical and mental health (such as the Yale study, which found that prolonged stress causes degeneration in the area of the brain responsible for self-control). The tricky thing about stress (and the anxiety that comes with it) is that it’s an absolutely necessary emotion. Our brains are wired such that it’s difficult to take action until we feel at least some level of this emotional state. In fact, performance peaks under the heightened activation that comes with moderate levels of stress. As long as the stress isn’t prolonged, it’s harmless.

Research from the University of California, Berkeley, reveals an upside to experiencing moderate levels of stress. But it also reinforces how important it is to keep stress under control. The study, led by post-doctoral fellow Elizabeth Kirby, found that the onset of stress entices the brain into growing new cells responsible for improved memory. However, this effect is only seen when stress is intermittent. As soon as the stress continues beyond a few moments into a prolonged state, it suppresses the brain’s ability to develop new cells.

“I think intermittent stressful events are probably what keeps the brain more alert, and you perform better when you are alert,” Kirby says. For animals, intermittent stress is the bulk of what they experience, in the form of physical threats in their immediate environment. Long ago, this was also the case for humans. As the human brain evolved and increased in complexity, we’ve developed the ability to worry and perseverate on events, which creates frequent experiences of prolonged stress.

Besides increasing your risk of heart disease, depression, and obesity, stress decreases your cognitive performance. Fortunately, though, unless a lion is chasing you, the bulk of your stress is subjective and under your control. Top performers have well-honed coping strategies that they employ under stressful circumstances. This lowers their stress levels regardless of what’s happening in their environment, ensuring that the stress they experience is intermittent and not prolonged.

While I’ve run across numerous effective strategies that successful people employ when faced with stress, what follows are ten of the best. Some of these strategies may seem obvious, but the real challenge lies in recognizing when you need to use them and having the wherewithal to actually do so in spite of your stress.

So, what are these attributes that these successful people possess?  They include:


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The Pain of Your Past by Pastor Jimmy Evans

4/19/2015

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We all have emotional pain in life to overcome. Pain can come from rejection, abandonment, divorce, the death of loved ones, abuse, social rejection, failures in academics or careers, or loneliness, to name just a few. Pastor Jimmy Evans from Marriage Today teaches about healthy and unhealthy ways of coping with pain. We must learn to overcome pain to reach our God given destiny.
Watching the video, you will learn about the unhealthy ways of coping with pain:
  1. Medicate it- This may take the form of alcohol, drugs, food addiction, pornography, gambling, etc.
  2. Motivate it- Some people stay so busy, they work themselves to death.
  3. Meditate on it- These people will “stew” on the pain, sometimes for years, full of unforgiveness.
How great men and women of God overcome pain in 3 primary ways:
  1. They face it-  You can bring an end to pain in your future family line by being courageous enough to face it now.
  2. They forgive and forget it- This doesn’t mean it will be erased from your memory, but you refuse to let it negatively influence your life.
  3. They follow Jesus away from the pain.
Our prayer for you today at Lighthouse of Christ is that you would honestly and courageously face the pain in your life, forgive as necessary, and embrace the cross of Jesus- He will not leave you or forsake you! Amen!
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I Changed my Mind about Worry and Anxiety by Pastor Jimmy Evans

12/10/2014

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Pastor Jimmy Evans outlines a biblical perspective regarding worry, anxiety and fear.  He uses his own testimony of overcoming to encourage us to also overcome.

So many are bound by anxiety and fear, which are really core issues of the human soul.  However, pursuing our Godly purpose is difficult, if not impossible, if we are bound by worry, anxiety and fear.

Pastor Evans helps us better understand these issues on our journey of unlocking our destiny. Did you know that Jesus experienced as great a fear as has any man that has ever lived?  Jesus overcame fear and the temptation to run from his fear.  His courage in overcoming changed everything.

In the same way, as we overcome fear, our destiny realized will change things - in a way that advances God's purposes - just as in the manner of Jesus Christ.

This is truly a key teaching for unlocking your purpose - take the time and let it sink in.
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There is Hope for Emotional Breakthrough by Lance Wallnau

10/30/2014

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Hope can be defined as "the happy anticipation of good things." When we anticipate the goodness of God in our lives, it opens the door to greater happiness. So are you aggressively hoping for something good to happen to you?  As long as we live, you and I are always going to be heading somewhere. God created us to be goal-oriented visionaries. Without a vision, we become bored and hopeless. And "hope deferred makes the heart sick," according to Proverbs 13:12, "but when the desire is fulfilled, it is a tree of life." God wants us to live by His hope so that we can enjoy life. You're not going to be happy if you don't have hope. The more hope you have in God, the happier you become. Hope believes everything is going to turn out all right, hope is positive! To enjoy life you must maintain a good, hopeful attitude. God is positive, and He wants positive things to happen to each of us, so fill yourself with His hope today and live with the happy anticipation of good things. - Joyce Meyers
Prayer Starter: God, I make the choice today to happily anticipate Your goodness in my life. And as my hope increases, I know that my joy will increase too. Lord, I put my hope in You.  Proverbs 13:12 Hope deferred makes the heart sick, But when the desire comes, it is a tree of life. - Joyce Meyers
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Here's My Heart, Lord by Lighthouse Of Christ's Faith Community Nurse

10/29/2014

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God desires for us to live in emotional and relational wholeness. Wholeness means that you are spiritually at peace no matter what circumstances you are facing. It means you continue to trust in His goodness and mercy, and believe that they will follow you all of the days of your life.  Emotional wholeness is living in a state of grace, accepting God's healing and restoration for issues in your life, present or past. It also includes living with a healthy anticipation for good things in the future. It means living in balanced, rewarding relationships with others in our lives. God has arranged for the healing of all of our struggles through His son Jesus Christ. Psalm 23:3 promises us that God restores our souls. He renews our lives, He restores our strength.

One practical way to seek this wholeness is by singing a simple song of dedication. For instance, the meditative prayer of this song will set you on the right path to opening your heart to the Healer. The chorus of the song declares "Here's My Heart, Lord, speak what is true." We encourage you to spend some time today with the healer and refresher of your soul, Jesus Christ.

“Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest."
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-Matthew 11:28 (NIV)

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